Sound Advice for my future self: Personal

As we ride the rollercoaster of life, juggling family, personal aspirations, and the delightful chaos in between, I want to share some nuggets of wisdom with my future self. These lessons have been hard-earned, but I hope they serve as a compass for your journey ahead.

Below are key concepts that I've learned as I continue to navigate the day to day of this crazy life.

Know Your Worth: In the hustle and bustle of life, it's easy to forget your intrinsic value. Remember, you are more than your roles as a mom, wife, and professional. Embrace your uniqueness, acknowledge your strengths, and never settle for anything less than you deserve, both personally and professionally.

Set Personal Boundaries: Just as in your career, personal life requires boundaries. Know when to say 'no' and prioritize self-care. Boundaries are not a sign of weakness; they're a testament to your self-awareness and respect for your well-being.

Break the Chain: We inherit more than just genes from our families; we also carry generational patterns and habits. Break the chain of negative cycles and create a legacy of positivity, growth, and resilience for your children. You have the power to redefine the narrative.

Prioritize What Matters Most: Life's to-do list is never-ending, but not everything on it is of equal importance. Prioritize moments that truly matter—quality time with family, pursuing your passions, and creating lasting memories. Let go of the unnecessary and embrace the meaningful.

Celebrate All Things Big and Small: In the whirlwind of daily life, it's easy to overlook small victories. Celebrate them! Whether it's a successful podcast episode, a parenting win, or just making it through a hectic day, take a moment to acknowledge and revel in your achievements, big and small.

Snuggle Time: Amidst the chaos, don't forget to pause for snuggle time. Those quiet, intimate moments are the glue that binds a family together. Cherish the warmth of hugs, the joy of laughter, and the comfort of being present with your loved ones.

Have Grace: Life is messy, and so are we. Embrace imperfections, both in yourself and others. Have grace during challenging moments, and remember that perfection is an illusion. You're doing your best, and that's more than enough.

Embrace Failure: Failure is not the end; it's a stepping stone to growth. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, for they are the lessons that shape you. Embrace failure with an open heart, learn from it, and use it as fuel for future success.

You're an Adult. Every choice is yours. From how you react to a situation, to how you chose to get out of bed. There is no excuse big enough in the world for your actions and behavior. Follow your faith and be the best human you can be. You're responsible for that.

God has your back. Bad things will happen. Sad things will happen. Things happen. No matter what, God always has your back. Consume yourself with the Bible. Stay focused on that race.

As you continue navigating the beautiful chaos of life, keep these personal lessons close to your heart. Know your worth, set boundaries, break the chain, prioritize what matters, celebrate, snuggle, have grace, and embrace failure. Here's to a future filled with love, laughter, and the wisdom to savor every moment.

Cheers to you, the unstoppable mom, wife, and all-around amazing woman!